Every day there are obstacles to overcome. Be it trying to figure out whether to stay in or eat out. Other problems include people who are trying to seduce your partner or your desired partner. A Male's Perspective investigates the competition in the clubs and offers insight.

With America gripped by soaring divorce rates, there are few explanations to why these unions are collapsing. The Male Perspective questions and explores whether this is because of pressure of individuals to settle for someone who is perceived to be the perfect partner and is actually far from perfect and far from being the one.

At some point in our romantic lives the opportunity crops up to have a casual relationship with the girl next door etc> But what about the hidden emotions or sexual tests which can destroy the partnership and the reputations of those involved?

Hi, welcome to my new weekly column. Before you ask I am no sex expert nor have I a PHD in relationships but this is a Carrie Bradshaw-esque column but without the high heels and short skirts. Well I won’t be wearing any short skirts or high heels. I am here to give a male’s insight, mine, into relationships. To set the record straight, I am in no way a casanova but I do fall somewhere between those who dance desperately to the lads who pull regularly.