I have taken advantage of the dating scene since I moved down to Southern California. Dating is a lot of fun, but it can get expensive for the guy. It seems that the majority of females feel entitled to a free outing every time that they are asked out on a date. It can be a win-lose or a win-win situation for the girl. A win-lose-win means that they get a free night of fun and being spoiled while not liking the guy. It is like getting a watch for Christmas except it was not the exact watch that you wanted. A win-win situation provides the female with a free night out and a guy that she would enjoy seeing in a relationship.

The guy is left with a lose-lose situation or a lose-win situation. A lose-lose situation cuts into a guy’s cash flow and sticks him with a girl he never wants to see again. It is like buying a product you saw on television and it ends up being garbage. A lose-win for a guy puts him at a loss of cash, but he gains a female. It is a pareto optimal position for him to be in a lose-win situation being that he is willing to exchange his hard earned money for the experience of a date with that specific chosen individual.

Females seem to want equality when it comes to all areas of their social and work related lives, but they seem to be hypocritical about the subject when confronted by dating. On the first date, it is expected by the female to have the male open the door and front the bill. Some females will offer to split the bill, but the male knows that if he allows this action he will be viewed unfavorable by her, her friends and her relatives. No man would chance this inferior view by a female and her close ones if he wishes to continue to see her. The first dates are crucial for a man when engaging a female that he wishes to see further. One false move, such as signs of desperation or lack of capitol, will put him in a position of weakness and the female will kill off the poor weak male leaving him in wonder.

Dating is a game that can be mastered by anyone. You can be a winner in the dating game or a loser. It seems that only those without emotion are able to master this game. The goal of a relationship for a female is to feel that the man needs her while the ultimate goal for the male is to feel that the female wants him. Without this balance the relationship will come to a halt and either cease to exist or exist in malevolence because of the unbalance.

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