HOLLYWOOD —It’s really shocking when you learn that you’ve been cheated on. It is quite devastating; it feels like you have been kicked in the gut and tossed into a gutter. You stay up all night watching romantic movies, crying and your boyfriends become Ben & Jerry’s ice cream. You start asking yourself the same question over and over, “Once a cheater, always a cheater?” Of course, when you’re a celebrity, it hurts so much more. The whole world knows your private business. However, there are celebrities that learn and grow from the painful emotional hurricane and the loss of closeness in relationship that are the aftermaths of cheating. It also helps when a celebrity has the support of an army of fans. Jesse who? Spike TV says Sandra Bullock made a surprise appearance at its “Guys Choice” event in Culver City, Calif.

It looks like Sandra is moving forward. Spike says Sandra Bullock received a standing ovation from the audience at Sony Pictures Studios on June 5, when she accepted the “Troops Choice” Award for Entertainer of the Year. The award was voted by members of the military. The 45-year-old actress has kept a very low profile since her public split from husband Jesse James after she won the Best Actress Oscar for her role in “The Blind Side” earlier this year. Spike’s “Guys Choice” will air on June 20.

Sandra Bullock and Scarlett Johansson made everyone forget about Bullock’s personal woes on June 6, when they shared a kiss onstage at the MTV Movie Awards. It was her second public appearance since she and the world discovered that her hubby Jesse James had been cheating on her. Betty White and Bradley Cooper, Bullock’s co-stars from “All About Steve,” presented Bullock with her MTV Generation Award; Johansson joined them onstage and angled for a kiss. After a quick smooch, Sandra said, “Now that we have done that, can we please go back to normal?”

Speaking of normal, imagine Lady Gaga going from “Fame Monster” to space monster-if “Doctor Who” scriptwriter Gareth Roberts has his way. The pop star who has a passion for wearing unique far-out costumes makes her a shoo-in to guest star on the long-running cult British science fiction series. As of press time, Gaga hasn’t signed on the dotted line. Singer Kylie Minogue previously guest starred on the 2007 Christmas special episode, “Voyage of the Damned,” playing the Doctor’s companion. The role was specifically written for her.

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